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	<title>The Survivor Manual &#187; Incest</title>
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		<title>How my Mom Taught me my Value was Sexual</title>
		<link>http://www.survivormanual.com/2010/04/how-my-mom-taught-me-my-value-was-sexual/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Apr 2010 23:20:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>DarleneOuimet</dc:creator>
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My mother taught me that my only value was sexual and that my success in life would be based on my looks and appeal. She began teaching me very young about sexuality. She modeled sexuality, she flirted constantly with most men, she said inappropriate things in front of me and she did inappropriate things involving [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Review of &#8220;Beyond the Tears&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 23:25:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lynn Tolson</dc:creator>
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Riveting Read! Beyond the Tears: A True Survivor’s Story by Lynn C. Tolson is an absolutely awesome story! I was spellbound to the end. The reflections on experiences in the author&#8217;s life were real and very well-written. I could not put the book down. The feedback from the therapist provided great insight into my own [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Family Court vs Criminal Court</title>
		<link>http://www.survivormanual.com/2009/11/family-court-vs-criminal-court/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 18:03:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Shelton</dc:creator>
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For those protective parents and or guardians having to deal with the court system, you should be fully prepared before stepping into court.  Many courts are corrupt and many perpetrators know this and utilize the system to then get full custody of their victims.  Beware.
Check out http://www.justicewomen.com and http://www.factscourtwatch.org/ to find out more about the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Review of No Secrets, No Lies: How Black Families Can Heal</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 02:48:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lynn Tolson</dc:creator>
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No Secrets, No Lies: How Black Families Can Heal From Sexual Abuse by Robin D. Stone
 
The author of is a survivor of sexual assault. She has been an editor for Essence magazine, The New York Times, the Boston Globe, the Detroit Free Press, and Family Circle. She also teaches journalism at New York University. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Incest Survivors&#8217; Aftereffects Checklist, by E. Sue Blume</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 19:44:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Shelton</dc:creator>
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This list is from E. Sue Bloom, author of, Secret Survivors: Uncovering Incest and Its Aftereffects in Women
Author&#8217;s note: This list may be copied and distributed for non-commercial purposes without prior authorization, as long as it is not edited or altered in any way. That is, nothing may be removed or changed. For all uses [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Courage to Heal</title>
		<link>http://www.survivormanual.com/2008/12/the-courage-to-heal/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 01:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Shelton</dc:creator>
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		<title>Irony Poster Boy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 04:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Shelton</dc:creator>
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I believe they all think this.

PONTIAC, Michigan (AP) &#8212; A 33-year-old man who authorities say wore a &#8220;World&#8217;s Greatest Dad&#8221; T-shirt intending to have sex with someone he believed was a 14-year-old girl has been sentenced to three to 20 years in prison.
Daniel Everett&#8217;s stepdaughter had given him the T-shirt, his wife&#8217;s lawyer said.
Oakland County [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dear Jane,</title>
		<link>http://www.survivormanual.com/2008/01/dear-jane-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jan 2008 16:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Shelton</dc:creator>
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I got your message and yes, it is okay to be angry.  You live in hell, of course you can be angry.  There are many in your situation being held in prison by their family &#8211; literally.   I spoke to another one of them online.  But it was her dad [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I’m afraid a little girl I know is being molested. I have no idea what to do. I have no proof, but I can see something in her eyes. Do I try to &#8230;&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://www.survivormanual.com/2007/12/i%e2%80%99m-afraid-a-little-girl-i-know-is-being-molested-i-have-no-idea-what-to-do-i-have-no-proof-but-i-can-see-something-in-her-eyes-do-i-try-to/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2007 02:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Shelton</dc:creator>
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I recommend that you go to the d2l.org &#8211; Darkness to Light- web site and download the 7 Steps to protecting our children, guiding responsible adults to prevent, recognize and react responsibly to child sexual abuse. This guide will tell you how to talk to adults about suspicion of abuse and where to go for [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dear Jane&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2007 02:19:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Shelton</dc:creator>
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This is to a girl I love. You know who you are.  There are quite a few of you out there and this is for all of you but especially Jane.

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