Comments on: 7 Courses to Full Living http://www.survivormanual.com/2009/10/7-courses-to-full-living/ Inspiring & Empowering Survivors to lead Joyful lives. Tue, 07 Feb 2012 01:21:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.3 By: Angela Shelton http://www.survivormanual.com/2009/10/7-courses-to-full-living/comment-page-1/#comment-77 Angela Shelton Mon, 02 Nov 2009 16:02:19 +0000 http://www.survivormanual.com/?p=290#comment-77 That is creepy creepy. You were correct to listen to your gut in my opinion. You never know but I say always error on the side of what your gut says. I've heard this scenario before. Once the baby was born the guy pleaded to take it to meet all his buddies and the mother thought that was weird too and said no. After much persisting about how much he wanted to show the baby off, she let him take her and the infant ended up being into a child porn ring. Again, you never know, but I say hooray that you listened to your gut. It's also a sign of co-dependency and possible abuse in the future when they want to move very quickly. That is creepy creepy. You were correct to listen to your gut in my opinion. You never know but I say always error on the side of what your gut says. I’ve heard this scenario before. Once the baby was born the guy pleaded to take it to meet all his buddies and the mother thought that was weird too and said no. After much persisting about how much he wanted to show the baby off, she let him take her and the infant ended up being into a child porn ring. Again, you never know, but I say hooray that you listened to your gut.

It’s also a sign of co-dependency and possible abuse in the future when they want to move very quickly.

]]> By: UndeniablyMe http://www.survivormanual.com/2009/10/7-courses-to-full-living/comment-page-1/#comment-76 UndeniablyMe Sun, 01 Nov 2009 20:55:45 +0000 http://www.survivormanual.com/?p=290#comment-76 I have a question for you.... I was dating a guy, and 5 days after beginning the relationship, he starts talking about how the baby I'm pregnant with is his son too and how we should get married so his name can be on the baby's birth certificate and all this. I got a really bad gut feeling that something was off with him, and I ended things because I realized I would not trust him with my son, and didn't want him anywhere near him once he's born. Am I overreacting? Or was my gut feeling right? I have a question for you…. I was dating a guy, and 5 days after beginning the relationship, he starts talking about how the baby I’m pregnant with is his son too and how we should get married so his name can be on the baby’s birth certificate and all this. I got a really bad gut feeling that something was off with him, and I ended things because I realized I would not trust him with my son, and didn’t want him anywhere near him once he’s born.

Am I overreacting? Or was my gut feeling right?

]]> By: Janie Blakely http://www.survivormanual.com/2009/10/7-courses-to-full-living/comment-page-1/#comment-70 Janie Blakely Mon, 26 Oct 2009 14:55:36 +0000 http://www.survivormanual.com/?p=290#comment-70 Angela Shelton is a hero (in addition to being the squishiest goddess ever!)! Thank you, thank you for being with us on your Special Sundays and secondly--thank you, thank you for sharing this beautiful outline yesterday. Since the woman who gave birth to me is my main perpetrator, I have never known how to mother myself and how to prioritize my needs. This is the information I have always needed!! *Happy Dance!* The way I see it: Joining the Army of Angels has kept me choosing life when I need it the most. And now, this beautiful outline gives me the chance to choose wholeness and joy when I'm most ready for it. Now I choose not to just keep breathing--but I choose to learn to breathe in life!! You keep on rocking it, Angela Shelton! Angela Shelton is a hero (in addition to being the squishiest goddess ever!)! Thank you, thank you for being with us on your Special Sundays and secondly–thank you, thank you for sharing this beautiful outline yesterday.

Since the woman who gave birth to me is my main perpetrator, I have never known how to mother myself and how to prioritize my needs. This is the information I have always needed!! *Happy Dance!*

The way I see it:

Joining the Army of Angels has kept me choosing life when I need it the most.

And now, this beautiful outline gives me the chance to choose wholeness and joy when I’m most ready for it.

Now I choose not to just keep breathing–but I choose to learn to breathe in life!!

You keep on rocking it, Angela Shelton!

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